{"id":141,"date":"2010-12-19T19:24:27","date_gmt":"2010-12-19T23:24:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.drbarrybrody.com\/blog1\/?p=141"},"modified":"2010-12-19T19:24:27","modified_gmt":"2010-12-19T23:24:27","slug":"the-truth-about-lies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.drbarrybrody.com\/blog1\/?p=141","title":{"rendered":"The Truth About Lies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;The Truth Is Out There&#8221;&#8211;The X Files<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The best place to hide the truth is between two lies&#8221;&#8211;The X Files<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Everybody lies&#8221;-House<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The attorney says that &#8220;no one can cover all their tracks&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>The attorney is pouring over a desk full of documents&#8211;pleadings, statements, and other pages.<\/p>\n<p>The attorney is looking for the lies.\u00a0 The attorney knows they are there.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But how do you discover lies, let alone the truth?\u00a0 And it is easier to discover lies or the truth?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I remember seeing an old British movie.\u00a0 It was black and white and had a title like &#8220;The Three Lies&#8221;.\u00a0 It was the story of a psychiatrist who dies and his three patients.\u00a0 The three patients are eager to see what is in their files.\u00a0 As if their psychiatrist&#8217;s file contained the truth about them.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I recently read a story about a young man that lied his way into Harvard.\u00a0 What was the ability he had? \u00a0What makes a good lie, a good liar?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>WR Bion proposed that a lie requires a thinker, but the truth does not.<\/p>\n<p>Bion also proposed that Keats&#8217; Negative Capability, &#8220;when a man is capable of being in uncertainties, mysteries, doubts, without any irritable reaching after facts and reason&#8221;, was the road to discovering the truth.<\/p>\n<p>And finally Bion wrote that truth is unknowable, but it could be experienced.\u00a0 In other words, what one &#8220;knows&#8221; about the the truth is merely an approximation, if that.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But if the truth is unknowable, then facts and reason will not lead us to the truth.\u00a0 There will always be a gap.\u00a0 A caesura.\u00a0 Between an unknowable truth and what we think we &#8220;know&#8221; about the truth.<\/p>\n<p>And what about lies?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps what the attorney was looking for in searching for lies was the absence of any gaps.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps lies can be detected because they are constructed to be without gaps&#8211;to be logical and reasonable.<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps our conscious minds operate to fill-in the gaps and see things as whole and continuous.\u00a0 Gestalt psychologists postulated that perceptually our minds see things as wholes.\u00a0 So when we see a tennis net we see the net, not a collection of holes joined together.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps the only way to discover and experience truth is the find the gaps.\u00a0 (At which point the patient asks, &#8220;But what will I do with the gap?&#8221;)<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Dr. Brody<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;The Truth Is Out There&#8221;&#8211;The X Files &#8220;The best place to hide the truth is between two lies&#8221;&#8211;The X Files &#8220;Everybody lies&#8221;-House \u00a0 The attorney says that &#8220;no one can cover all their tracks&#8221;. The attorney is pouring over a desk full of documents&#8211;pleadings, statements, and other pages. 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